I am 48 years old and I was , I thought happily, married for 20 years. My husband , who I supported through multiple deployments and PTSD , left me suddenly 7 months ago. I then began to battle with depression and deep sadness. over those unhappy years I was diagnosed with Hashimotos disease and gained over 100 pounds. When I was out of the relationship I realized what he had done to keep me under control. I was convinced I would never be thin again. BUT my best friend said that was crap and he would help me find me again. So I started training everyday and have lost 70 pounds so far. I know after I lose the last bit of weight I will breast implants because they already sag and a tummy tuck to get rid of excess skin. Because I'm left trying to fend for myself after never having to work there is no way I can afford this surgery . I need help to be me again and break the last of his control.