- Reason: Cosmetic
- Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
- State / Region: MI
- Country: United States
- Listed: April 9, 2018 2:37 pm
- Expires: 45 days, 6 hours
I have always been a solid person. By age 12 I was taller than all the women in my family and filed out my frame nicely. And more self conscious than any pre-teen need be. After a few years of my family doctor dating not to worry, I’d grow out of it, I took matters into my own hands and began exercising and watching what I ate. I slimmed down, but was never “ideal” or “thin”, but I looked great!
I had my daughter at 22 and not long after her father passed away. I pulled myself through the pain through weight lifting and training. After a few years I was looking as good as I was before I had her but only as long as I was dressed, due to sagging skin; she was a 10lbs baby.
At 30 I remarried and got pregnant almost immediately. Unfortunately that pregnancy and the two which followed all ended in miscarriages. My husband began to resent me and made threats to leave if I couldn’t bare him a child. I began fertility treatments which caused a weight gain of 5-10lbs per month dispite my having dropped to a 1200 calorie diet and strict exercise regime. After gaining 60lbs the treatments did not matter anymore as my husband was so unattracted to me at this point there was no intimacy. He finally left me after 6 years for some 25 yr old whom he almost immediately got pregnant.
Throughout my divorce I managed to lose 40lbs. And I look great! There’s just a few things which are stubborn that is like to get a little help with: my tummy, liposuction in my upper back near my arms, breast augmentation or lift, maybe arms lipo’d too.
Why should you help me? Quite simply because I’m a good person who wants this done to improve my health, and match my outer beauty with my inner beauty. I’m not looking for perfection, just an improved me, a me I can be proud of. You’ll be contributing to a piece of happiness for someone who had experienced a lot of pain.
What’s in it for you? Before, progress, and after photos. Regular photo updates. Access to a private Instagram account I will be setting up which will focus on body-positivity and recovery. Maybe even a personal friendship will develop from this.